I have a baby name...?

My grandmother ped away 3 years ago and she was extremely special and close to me and both of my kids. We were not expecting to have another baby, but here we are on our third child now and since we have a daughter and a son we want to be surprised with this one. My husband is in charge of finding boy names and I the girl names. Well, I decided that I want to name this child after my nana. Her name was Nora. I love old names (my husband does too) but he doesn't really like this name as a first name and my 7 yr old daughter is adament about how much she dislikes this name. I try to reason with her by saying that this was Nonnies name (my daughter nad my nana had an extra special relationship)..she denied this and said NO! Her name was Nonnie! LOL... I thought this was rather cute, but hurtful since I do love this name and I do want to name my daughter after her. What should I do about this? Any ideas? I could handle just having it for a middle name...but I don't know...I like Nora May, but I can't seem to find a ny names that I life that go with Nora as a middle name...If anyone has any suggestions for names I might consider the middle name to be Nora...Kind of sad about this.